Zeng Guofan, minister of the late Qing Dynasty, said: "for those who seek great things, the most important thing is the pattern."

in many cases, whether a thing is good or bad does not depend on itself, but on how we look at it.

people who really have a big pattern are often able to keep their cool, turn a corner and hold the game when things go wrong.

keep calm

living in this line

"will this really be successful?"

"is it necessary to keep going?"

"forget it, let's do it later."

but as the saying goes, haste makes waste, everything is only the pursuit of speed, the result may get worse and worse.

people with a high pattern can often keep their cool, and even in unfavorable circumstances, they can bear the temper for a moment and consider their long-term goals.

in the movie Shawshank's Redemption, the innocent Andy is sentenced to life imprisonment for his involvement in the murder of his wife.

this means that if nothing happens, he will spend the rest of his life in prison.

Andy witnessed the beating of the prisoners on the first night of Shawshank.

since then, he has been calm, even if he suffered sudden abuse and insults, he never changed his face.

Andy's performance makes his cellmate Rhett feel that he is a very special person.

at first, Rhett thought that young Andy would not stand the test of prison. But it turned out that he lived through day after day safely and secretly planned to leave the prison.

when Rhett learned that Andy was going to dig a hole with a hammer to escape from prison, he said it was impossible. It would take at least 600 years to dig a tunnel with it.

but Andy dug calmly for more than twenty years.

finally, on a thunderstorm night, Andy got into the tunnel and climbed nearly 500 meters of foul-smelling sewers and was free again.

there is a saying: "Life will not always be good, nor will it always be bad. If you calm down this second, you will be more confident the next."

Bamboo takes 4 years and is 3 centimeters long. from the fifth year, it will grow to 15 meters in only 6 weeks.

so do people. The more calm the person is, the more he will be able to keep the clouds open and see the moon after a lot of training.

as the old saying goes, "those who are restless accomplish nothing; those who are calm and calm gather themselves."

turn the corner

the thinker Liang Qichao once said, "if you change, you will be familiar with it, and if you change it, you will know it for a long time."

its meaning is: a person's life will always go through ups and downs, and only those who know how to adapt can stand out.

when she was 5 years old, she was sent to study gymnastics by her mother. In sports school, she spent a lot of time training every day, such as waist down, jumping and tumbling.

this persistence lasts for 10 years, and Isinbayeva has never been slack off.

but as she grows older, she grows taller and taller, reaching

1.7 meters.

in the gymnastics team, this height does not have an advantage, but will affect her performance in the competition.

at that time, when the pole vault was selecting athletes, the coach took a fancy to Isinbayeva as a good candidate for pole vaulting.

for her who loves gymnastics, it is a difficult choice, but she also knows that her own conditions are not allowed. In order not to let her dream run aground while waiting, she decided to give up gymnastics and start learning pole vaulting.

this change not only made Isinbayeva create her own pole vaulting era, but also made her a popular figure in the world sports world.

in the face of life choices, Isinbayeva did not dash forward, but chose to make a detour.

because she understands that not all efforts are worth adhering to, and that efforts will be more meaningful only if you choose the right direction.

sometimes, it is not an advantage not to hit the south wall and not to look back. on the contrary, in the horn tip, learning to turn is the wisest wisdom.

perhaps, everyone understands this truth, but very few people can jump out of the "dead end" when they encounter problems.

some people fail in the exam, never recover, and are full of disappointment with the future.

after some people get hurt in love, they can't get over it and torture themselves as well as their families.

after some people fail in their careers, they lose the courage to continue and even less confidence to start all over again.

but everything has two sides. People with patterns will always try to reconcile with life. If they turn a corner and look at the problem, they may have a different world.

cartoonist Zheng Xinyao said: "at the end of the road, it does not mean that we have reached the end of the road, but reminds us that it is time to turn."

hold the game steadily

someone on Zhihu asked, "what are the signs for those with a large pattern?"

one of the highly praised answers: steady.

Yes, life is like a chess game. only when things are stable, can we win in the end.

A forced landing at an altitude of 9800 meters and a speed of 800km per hour saved the lives of 128people in just 34 minutes.

this man is not Superman, but an ordinary Chinese captain-Liu Chuanjian.

May 14, 2018, LiuChuanjian flew the 3U8633 flight from Chongqing to Lhasa as usual.

when the plane reaches the sky over the Qinghai-Tibet Plateau, you can see the fields and mountains through the portholes.

I thought it would be a smooth flight, but with a loud bang, the windshield on the right side of the cockpit cracked.

in an instant, the glass was completely broken, followed by loud noise, severe hypoxia and a low temperature of minus 40 degrees.

in times of crisis, Liu Chuanjian, with a stable psychological quality, adjusted the autopilot to manual, quickly flattened the plane and prevented the collision.

after the plane flew steadily, he worked hard to reduce the altitude of the plane and held on for a full 20 minutes under negative pressure and hypoxia before taking the plane out of the mountain area.

in the 34 minutes after the accident, he successfully brought 119 passengers and nine crew members back to the ground safely with superb operation skills.

in the face of the critical juncture of life and death, it is precisely because Liu Chuanjian is as steady as Mount Tai that he has created a miracle in the history of China's civil aviation.

Zeng Guofan said: "everything should be dealt with peacefully and gently. If you are in a hurry, you may make a mistake."

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there are many such situations in life:

the vehicle that is about to miss the exit changes the lane in a hurry, resulting in a car out of control, resulting in a traffic accident.

arranged for a business trip by the boss, everything originally prepared was packed, but the contract was left on the table in a hurry, resulting in the termination of the cooperation.

A convulsion occurred after the child had a fever. in a panic, the father scratched the child's throat with his hand, resulting in the child's heartbeat and breathing stopped.

when something happens, it is like an invisible ticking time bomb. If it explodes suddenly, it will cause unimaginable consequences.

A real master often strives for victory in stability, which can not only ease the tense situation, but also push things for the better.

calm down, so that we can have the ability to think calmly;

when we turn a corner, we can have the wisdom to turn our hearts along the road.

being stable in the game can give us a calm state of mind;

, may everyone broaden their horizons, improve the pattern, and live a wonderful life in a short life.

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