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I have read a question on the Internet: "Why do some women become more and more attractive, while others become darker and darker?"

A high praise replied:

"because attractive women know how to manage themselves and their lives, and have a different aura and wisdom."

it is the long-cherished wish of thousands of women to live charmingly.

however, most people gradually dim their brilliance under the baptism of years and the heavy burden of life.

there are only a few people who are not covered with dust by the years, insist on running themselves, and exude a charming atmosphere.

Wilde said: "it is absurd to divide people into good and bad. People are either charming or boring."

in life, women who live more and more attractive often have these five habits.

do things simply and boldly

the world of adults is haunted by work and life as soon as they open their eyes every day.

as a woman, she usually takes on more, does not dare to relax her work, her family can not let go, and all kinds of trivialities surround her.

if you are indecisive and cannot be handled properly in time, only one thing will be unfinished and the next will rise again.

go on and on and on.

most of the time, it is not that we do not have the way to deal with things, but that we lack the courage and determination to do things simply.

often hold the mentality of "wait a minute" and "have a look", expecting things to take a turn for the better automatically, but the reality is always contrary to one's wishes.

have read a sentence:

"to do something, no matter how difficult it is, whether it will have a result or not, is not important, even if it fails.

the key is whether you have the courage to release your hands and feet, and whether you have the courage to face it bravely. "

A woman who does not panic when things happen and is bold in doing things is particularly charming because she is free and determined at heart.

they have ideas and opinions, and they never hesitate to bind their footsteps. They are not confused when they are supposed to think, and they are not impulsive when they are calm.

deal with things, simply and full of courage, in the face of feelings, dare to love and hate, can afford to let go.

Life will not be put off for the better. Only those who dare to be free and easy can live the way they want.

think independently and know how to plan

there is a good saying:

"A life without a plan is called a jigsaw puzzle, and a life with a plan is a blueprint."

A life without a plan is like a blind box. You don't know what you're going to win, let alone where you're going.

A planned life is an orderly train that may stop on the way, but will eventually reach the terminal where you want to go.

Chen Jiayu, a Chongqing girl, was persuaded by school to quit because of her disabled legs when she was a child, and her family was ready to take care of her for the rest of her life, but Chen Jiayu had other plans.

Chen Jiayu began to read widely. When she grew up, she was hired by a bookstore and became a gold medal salesman with her familiarity with books.

but a few years later, Chen Jiayu chose to resign and start a business, and people around her were confused and persuaded, but she still insisted on choosing.

later, with her own step-by-step plan, Chen Jiayu opened a printing factory, such as a turnover of more than 30 million yuan this year.

looking back, Chen Jiayu was mistreated by fate, but she took every step steadily and finally lived the way she wanted.

people must know what they want and what kind of life they want to live in order to have the right direction, otherwise they will just muddle along.

as the writer Li Xiaoyi said:

"you should bring your own map. You don't have to repeat other people's path."

every woman should have her own map, plan her way, go far away and live the life she wants to live.

if you feel confused or at a loss, you might as well stop for a while and plan your way forward.

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Let life continue in a balanced and orderly manner, and it will surely blossom stunning flowers and exude charming fragrance in time.

pay attention to maintenance and cherish yourself

in order to live, we are often so busy on the road that we forget ourselves.

I don't remember how long I haven't taken exquisite skin care and how long I haven't exercised happily.

before you know it, your body becomes bloated, your skin is rough and yellow, and your hair is dull.

We seem to forget that we once wanted to be a delicate girl and make life a beautiful poem.

supermodel Carmen Dale Olipheus, 84, is still active on the catwalk and has become the darling of the fashion world.

she never eats junk food, has a regular daily schedule, keeps exercising, and pays attention to skin management no matter how busy or tired she is.

Carmen's love for herself is her strength to resist aging.

the world is very superficial, not only by personal ability, but also by appearance and temperament.

it is difficult for a woman to be appreciated by the outside world if her image is sloppy and her eyes are dark.

writer Yan Geling said in "Heavenly Bath"

"be a bad, no discount, not cheap, not bad girl at any time."

you can not be good-looking, but your skin should be shiny; you can not have S-curve, but you must have good temperament.

the decision on whether your life is good or bad does not depend on the amount of money and the happiness of your family, but on your attitude towards yourself.

you do not cherish yourself, and others will not spoil you. You must be kind to yourself in order to shine brightly.

woman! Be sure to take good care of yourself, your love for yourself is the singing of life.

ten thousandThings are not disturbing, open-minded and optimistic

someone once asked, "what kind of woman is the most attractive?"

there is a striking answer: "A woman with a smile on her face is often the most fascinating."

think about it carefully, it is true, who can not like a woman who loves to laugh.

A person always frowns and complains, leaving traces on his face and showing a bitter look.

and the woman who loves to laugh, her heart is full of sunshine, does not worry about the trifles of life, and lives an open-minded and optimistic life.

it is not the preference of fate, nor the extra kindness of life, but that optimistic people know how to smile in the face of suffering.

A smile is the best health care product for a woman, which can smooth the wrinkles left by the years and make the whole person shine.

cartoonist Jimmy wrote in "Lonely and Beautiful"

"Sunflowers tell me that as long as we work hard in the face of the sun, life will become simple and beautiful."

born in the sun, live optimistically and actively, and live a miserable life happily, you can resist the wind and rain.

as long as life is open, all sufferings and pains are just scratches.

A sunny and optimistic woman often smiles on her face, which makes people want to approach in case of warm sun.

for the rest of my life, I don't think much about troubles, read more books when I have nothing to do, and make my spirit more full, so that I can see things more thoroughly and worry less.

be magnanimous, calm and calm

the stumbling of life is daily, and sometimes if you don't pay attention to it, you can't help but quarrel with others.

No matter how much you struggle and freak out, what you don't understand is still unresonant, and it's hard to give in if you don't give in.

therefore, living leisurely and magnanimously and ignoring things will be wiser and more charming than not having a ferocious face.

in the hit TV drama "Heart residence", Feng Xiaoqin is often disliked and guarded by his eldest sister-in-law Gu Qingyu.

Gu Qingyu also held small meetings with her husband and father-in-law from time to time, excluding Feng Xiaoqin.

because of Gu Qingyu's provocation, Feng Xiaoqin quarreled with her husband, and her husband accidentally fell down the stairs and lost his life.

but Feng Xiaoqin did not hold a grudge against Gu Qingyu. On the contrary, when Gu Qingyu was scolded by his relatives, he asked his son to show his support.

maybe some people think Feng Xiaoqin is stupid, but in fact, this is her wisdom in life.

I read a sentence in People's Daily:

"the difficulty of life is not to make you angry, but to make you more tolerant."

the highest way of living for a woman is to be magnanimous, with detached calmness and calmness in her heart.

the so-called magnanimity is not forcible forgiveness and weakness, but regardless of care, not entanglement, the focus on their own life.

instead of complaining that roses are covered with thorns, it is better to enjoy the beauty of flowers in full bloom.

be a quiet and calm woman, happy and angry, do not fight, do not fight, look down on the gains and losses, happiness will quietly come to the side.

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likes a sentence very much:

"Love life, love life, love yourself, the years will make your frown and smile picturesque."

the taste of life, you need to cook attentively, your love for life and your thoughts are all adding color to the picture.

really charming, not only rely on the face and figure, but also mature connotation and attitude towards life.

in this world, behind every woman with outstanding temperament and poetic life, there is accumulated management and self-discipline.

Life is short, try your best to live your own good demeanor, is the best response to time.

, may you live a more magnanimous, confident and charming life without fear of the passage of time.

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